Do I really want this, or do I just not want to miss out?
The She Says Yes on Purpose energy is devoted, wired to fully commit once it says yes. The real growth here is learning to check where the yes is coming from before it leaves your mouth.
First, we met the cranky side of She Says Yes on Purpose, where she says yes before she’s ready, ending up somewhere she never imagined she would be, and frustrated when the journey the yes took her on didn’t match her expectations.
We met this energy in everyday life, where she pauses to feel if a yes really means she’s ready or if it’s just FOMO, the fear of missing out, and where she honors the commitments she’s already made before adding anything new.
And then we met this energy at her best self, the Committed Seeker, whose wholehearted presence in every yes is so all in that other people can feel it.
Here’s the question to think about as we close out our time with She Says Yes on Purpose.
Where are you currently honoring a commitment, a yes, that came from fear of missing out instead of you really being ready for the yes? And what would it mean to get honest about that with yourself?
Here’s a small next step. Before you say yes to the next thing that comes your way, ask yourself one question: do I really want to do this, or do I just not want to miss out? Let that distinction be your guide.
In our next time together, we start a new energy and meet She Won’t Settle for Surface, the voice that knows the difference between a real connection and one that just manages to look like one.
I wouldn’t miss it. I hope you don’t!
Find your happy. Love what you do. Make a difference. Come back to me safely. See ya!
